Sometimes I find it hard to write on my page because I am so private.
I don't talk a lot or share my life with to many people. So I feel like I am always picking my brain for something to share. So here is something that I wouldn't normally share.

Yesterday was wonderful for me. I had the opportunity to spend some time with a male friend. He is always a great person to be around and he listens well. We started hanging as soon as I got off work. We grabbed a meal from Pollo Tropical and some fries from McDonalds. We headed over to his place and enjoyed a fun afternoon with his family. He helped me clean out my car that so badly needed it and changed a blown light bulb in my tail light. He simply did a few things that a good man would do to help his woman keep up.

He lives in walking distance of my dauhter's school so we took a nice stroll to pick her up. Here in Miami the weather is changing, its cooler in the evenings so we have this nice weather to enjoy. While doing these things and spending time with him, in the back of my mind the only thing that I could think was "Why couldn't this be my life everyday?".

Why is it that I don't have a wonderful man in my life to share with and spend quality time with? I don't ask for much out of a man but when I end up dating someone they can't even fulfill the basics. It's this time of the year when its nice to have someone near and dear to you to share with and enjoy the coming ending and new beginning. But back to my day.
We sat in his room and I read a few short stories out of a book called Chocolate Flava by Zane. I never had that experience before...most guys won't sit still to read anything past the sports section of a newspaper. Now don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with the sports section but dont let it stop there.
After reading a book by Zane we both needed another walk. That sister is hot. Anyways, after another cool walk in the hood, we ventured back to his house to watch a movie called the Recruit. It was pretty good and it kept our attention. We ate dinner and finished the night away by talking and laughing about life. And guess what...I was happy.
There was no need to go anywhere and spend hella cash. It doesnt take much to have an enjoyable time with someone. All I ask for realness, less the drama... a man to be a man.
Basically what I'm feeling, is that it's nice to be able to have someone in your life that enjoys your company and same interesting lifestyle. To be able to share with compassion and understading and without ridicule.