Got put to the Test!

In a previous post I mentioned that while on vacation in CO I ran into a classmate from highschool. What I haven't mentioned is that we have been keeping in touch and I will be going back to visit him in Feb.
Well this weekend I didn't hear from him but I didn't think much of it because for 1 he's not my boyfriend so there's no rule that we have to call each everyday. 2 He's in the army and he works long and crazy shifts. But when Monday came I still hadn't heard from him I got a lil worried because the last conversation we had was on Friday and he went out to the club and told me that he would call the next day. So now my mind is racing...Is he okay cause he hangs with some fighters? Did he decide that he couldn't handle the distance and move on? Did he lose his phone at the club? Or maybe he's away in the field? I'm sure you get the picture.

Now my old habits start to creep in my mind! I had decided to turn a new leaf in Dec about dealing with guys and just working on me and allow God to do the rest. So now in my mind I'm like, I could call a booty call and have things set up in two minutes. I don't know what dude is doing he could be telling me anything, is the thought that ran through my mind.
So I have this battle in my mind of getting with my booty call or just going home cause this is just a test of my faith. I decided to go straight home because I felt that this was just a test and that I would definitely get my call today!

Well, I PASSED MY TEST, I got my call early this morning while dressing for work. Most of my thoughts were true. He did lose his phone but his friend found it in his car and yesterday he had a long day at work and went home and went to sleep.

I have to accept his answer(excuse) as the truth because he really doesn't have to lie to me. He doesn't have to call me everyday I just got used to some form of communication (call/text) everyday or every other day. I figure it this way, if he is perpetrating then, it will all be revealed in due time and I will be able to move on with no hesitations. I'll give him a fair chance like I do everyone I deal with (male or female) once they break the trust then it's damn near hard to ever get it back! I will not play the fool ever again!

To each his own!